| If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you, | | | | are aware that their number will come up on Caller ID |
| you don't have to go to the expenses of hiring a | | | | and take steps to block the number when they call. |
| private detective to find out if your suspicions are | | | | This will make things a little more difficult. One sign you |
| correct. You can easily learn the tricks of the trade | | | | should watch for is that if your spouse never bothered |
| about how to catch a cheating spouse and your | | | | with erasing the list of calls and now faithfully does it |
| spouse will never know that you are onto him/her until | | | | after every call, then this is one sign that will confirm |
| you confront him/her with the evidence. Gathering the | | | | your suspicions. |
| information and the evidence will be very tough if you | | | | Use every opportunity to answer your spouse's cell |
| still care for your spouse and it is hard to find out that | | | | phone. More than likely this is how he/she is |
| your feelings are not being reciprocated or that you | | | | communicating with the other person in the relationship. |
| have been betrayed. | | | | You should do a check of the numbers on the cell |
| You do have to become deceptive and start doing | | | | phone and use a reverse phone look up on the |
| sneaky things in order to find out if your spouse is | | | | Internet to find a name and address associated with |
| actually cheating on you. This way if you are wrong | | | | this number. Check the text messages on the phone |
| and there is nothing going on, he/she will be none the | | | | to see what messages have been left. Chances are if |
| wiser and will not feel that he/she no longer has your | | | | there are any you won't have to go any further with |
| trust. The thing is that if you find out there is nothing | | | | your investigation once you find incriminating evidence. |
| going on you may feel guilty about being so deceptive | | | | If you know your spouses email password, then you |
| but you do have to be able to live with this guilt. | | | | can check the emails that he/she receives. Your |
| Catching your cheating spouse will involve such things | | | | spouse may have met someone on a chat line and is |
| as examining all the receipts that you take out of the | | | | now becoming very interested in that person. If you |
| pockets. It will involve checking computer and | | | | notice that he/she logs off or closes the screen as |
| telephone records to see what sites he/she has been | | | | soon as you enter the computer area, this should alert |
| on and where he/she has called. If you have Caller ID, | | | | you that there is cheating going on. You can take the |
| you can check the numbers of the incoming calls to | | | | time to check the sites that your spouse has visited |
| find out if there are any unfamiliar numbers and then | | | | and there are many computer experts who will show |
| find out who these numbers belong to. Most people | | | | you how to do this if you do not know how. |