How to Stand Out From the Herd and Be Heard!

What makes the difference between an averagepersona that was basically a sham. He projected a
presentation and one that rocks your world? Whatlarger-than-life image on a curtain that both awed and
makes the difference between a memorable speechscared the folks in the Emerald City.
and one that fades into oblivion as soon as theHe thought that in order to lead others, he had to be
presenter steps off the stage? The answer sits in foursomething he was not. In the end, the curtain was
building blocks that are essential for crafting a speechpulled away and we saw him manipulating an image of
into a work of art rather than hum-drum blather.himself. In truth, by ripping aside the curtain, the wizard
Building Block Number One: Add context to yourturned out to be a wise man with keen powers of
content.observation and the "audience" of Dorothy and her
Every word we utter, every gesture we make take itsfriends ended up listening to him.
nuance and meaning from the context of the moment.What was an incident of fiction is exactly what Pine
Consider context to be the background or the stageand Gilmore, authors of The Authentic Economy, insist
setting for what is being spoken. Small wonder thatis the exactly what consumers and employees are
Congress recoiled with the Big Three Automakerslooking for: authentic people! We're tired of phony
arrived in individual corporate jets to ask for money.baloneys. We're tired of slick and silly. We're tired of
The context made their mode of travel ludicrous.speakers who act as if they have all the answers and
If Astronaut Neil Armstrong had said, "One small stepthen behave off stage in a manner totally opposite to
for a man; one giant leap for mankind" while standingtheir presentation. We are hungry for REAL people.
on the 16th hole of Pebble Beach with a #3 wood inIf a presenter can build in personal examples of failure
his hand, that statement would have been destined forand success, or emotional high and lows-as fitting the
locker room chatter rather than heard as a definingtopic-the audience also relaxes into a listening mode.
moment in placing the U.S. on the moon. Context isOne of the best-and shortest speeches-I ever heard
everything.would have had 300 people up in a standing ovation
While this is a rather silly scenario, every speakerwere it not for the fact we were held fast by
faces an audience with a background that brings themseatbelts.
together. To connect with an audience, a speakerUnited Flight 1180 left Denver for New Orleans. Denver
must state the context for the gathering, the contextwas snowbound. De-icing was easy. New Orleans ---
for the message. If President Obama had failed toanother matter as huge thunderstorms kept rolling in
summarize the concern, anger, and frustration of thefrom the Gulf of Mexico. Diversion and diversion. All
average American as a preamble to his majorthe while the pilot kept us updated on our progress.
addresses given during the long election process, heWe learned that he had been a pilot in Vietnam. And
might very well have never been chosen to lead thiswhen he finally announced after many futile attempts
nation. When a speaker sets the stage by providing ato land, "I am an old pilot. Not a bold pilot," the cabin
context for his words, the audience settles in to listen,erupted in cheers. He shared what was behind the
believing "Ah. He understands what I am goingcurtain and in the end, we knew he didn't like the
through."situation any more than we did.
Often, the speaker can put into words what theBuilding Block Number Four: Practice storytelling instead
audience has been experiencing yet is unable-forof telling.
political or personal reasons-to express. In one keynote"Man cannot live without story any more than he can
address, I summarized the anxiety and uncertainty thelive without bread."
group faced with an unprecedented spinoff. Being able- Dr. Warren Bennis
to put a humorous twist by way of an analogy alsoSince ancient times when humanity gathered around a
got the group laughing and nodding. Now, we can getfire ring, painted on cave walls, marked tombs, or
down to business!wrote on hides and papyrus, we've been enamored
Building Block Number Two: Remember facts tell butby the stories these drawings tell. The drawings
emotion sells.captured what our ear can no longer hear.
Statistics, flow charts, and diagrams belong in handouts.All of human history has, at some point, been
What brings data to life is the emotion behind thesummarized through stories that reveal everything
information. If Martin Luther King had given his "I have afrom creation mythology to Biblical lessons to exploits
dream speech" but recited all the facts and figuresin outer space.
behind segregation, the audience would have gone toWe just plain love story. We like detail, action, and
sleep. Instead, he painted a picture and portrayed hiswords what SHOW us what happens rather than
own emotion about seeing races sitting beside eachTELLS us what happens. In coaching executives for
other. You saw and felt his intensity.presentations, our challenge is to constantly ask "what
If you think this only belongs in political or religiousstory would show this point?" When I want to make a
arenas, think again. Rita Davenport, president of one ofpoint about the potential downfall of knee jerk
the most profitable direct sales organizations in thereactions, I tell the story (and act out) cutting down the
world, Arbonne, never addresses her audience inWRONG fire alarm from the ceiling. I wiped out a
terms of dollars and cents. She talks about individualsperfectly good piece of equipment because I did not
and what happened in their lives as a result of havingstop to THINK!
their own business. I've watched this petite and veryThat story captures the imagination, makes the point,
funny woman bring crowds to their feet because sheand becomes memorable because it also shares
captured the emotion of success-not the facts.what's behind the curtain. We've all made the
Imagine the buy-in when an executive stands up,too-fast-dumb move. So now, we also have an
relays her story about what it is like to be a femaleemotional response as well!
executive in an 98% male organization. Facts aboutBy incorporating these four building blocks into a
organizational life? Yes. But also plenty of emotion thatpresentation, you'll not only be heard but remembered.
captured the attention of everyone at the conference.This makes you stand out from the herd. And that's no
Big stuff.bull!
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